With Locktober just around the corner it seems like the perfect time to discus Chasity!
Locktober refers to a man voluntarily abstaining from sexual activity and is typically locked in a chastity cage for the entire month of October. The term is a portmanteau of “lock” and “October.”
During Locktober, individuals who engage in this practice may do so for various reasons, including exploring aspects of BDSM, power dynamics, or simply for the thrill of self-control and denial.
For me I get so excited at the prospect of so many betas males all being locked in October. It also provides a great opportunity to try Chasity for the first time if you have been thinking about it for a while. Or if you’re more experienced its a great time to push yourself to staying locked for the whole month of locktober, or even into NOvember!
If you’d like to start your Chasity journey here are some key steps and considerations:
- Educate Yourself: Learn about chastity devices, safety precautions, and hygiene. Understand how to properly use and maintain chastity devices to avoid any discomfort or complications.
- Consent: Chastity is a consensual activity, so all parties involved must willingly agree to participate. Ensure that everyone involved is fully aware of what the practice entails and consents to it.
- Set Boundaries: Define clear boundaries and limits. Discuss what is allowed during chastity, what activities are off-limits, and any safe words or signals that can be used to communicate discomfort or the need to stop.
- Choose the Right Device: If you decide to use a chastity device, select one that fits comfortably and is made of body-safe materials. There are various types of devices available, so research and choose the one that suits your preferences.
- Trial Period: Consider starting with short trial periods to get accustomed to chastity and assess how it feels both physically and emotionally. Gradually extend the duration if desired.
- Hygiene: Maintain good personal hygiene while wearing a chastity device to prevent any potential health issues. Regular cleaning and care are essential.
- Check for Comfort: Regularly check for any signs of discomfort, chafing, or skin irritation. If you experience any issues, address them promptly.
- Emotional Support: Understand that chastity can have emotional and psychological effects. Stay connected with your partner(s) and provide emotional support when needed. Consider setting aside time for open discussions and check-ins.
- Consent and Review: Continuously check in with all parties involved to ensure that everyone is comfortable and consents to continue. Chastity should always be a mutually satisfying experience.
We both know that willy is pretty useless to anyone so you might as well just lock it away like a good boy!
I’d love to hear what is the longest period you have stayed locked for?
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