Let’s not pretend you haven’t seen it. You’re scrolling, you click something labeled Hotwife takes bull while husband watches… You think you’ll watch it once and move on. But you don’t. You come back. Again. And again. Even when you try to shake it off. Even when you tell yourself it’s “just a phase.” It’s not, and if that’s you, I want you to know: You’re not broken. You’re not alone, and no, you’re not the only man watching this kind of porn.
So what’s actually going on here?
Some kinks are just kinks. They live in fantasy, fuel your imagination, and never leave the screen, and that’s valid, but sometimes… a kink scratches a deeper itch.
Cuckolding, for a lot of men, isn’t just about watching their partner fuck someone else. It’s about power. Surrender. Wanting to feel useless, or useful. It’s about having permission to take up less space. It can feel like punishment or purpose. It can look like humiliation or devotion, and yes, it can turn you on in a way that nothing else does.
Do you have to “do” anything about it?
Not at all. You can live in this space — just enjoying the porn, the fantasy, the imagination — for the rest of your life if that’s where you feel safe and satisfied, but if you find yourself thinking…
What would it feel like to say this out loud?
What if someone understood it? Played with it? Used it against me?
Then maybe it’s not just a kink anymore. Maybe it’s the start of something deeper.
You don’t need to decide today.
You don’t need to become someone else. You just need to admit it turns you on and go from there, and if, one day, you do decide to take it further…
you’ll know exactly where to come.
